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    April 27

    生活故事

    故事一 
    地點:家裡
    媽媽:“孩子,這次考試要拿好成績喔~” (內心 os:到時再送他喜歡的玩具模型當獎勵吧~ 哈哈)
    孩子:“為什麼要拿好成績? 那我拿到好成績是不是可以買玩具模型給我補償?”
    媽媽:“。。。。。。”
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    故事二
    地點:鹽酥雞攤
    YOU:“這家店的食物很好吃喔,我們一定要好好大快朵頤一番~” (內心 os:等結帳的時候,由我付錢請客,給ME一個驚喜~ 呵呵^ ^)
    ME  :“這餐你請我就ok,我沒有錢吃那麼貴! ”
    YOU:“...... ......”
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    故事一和二,
    媽媽與YOU原本都很了解孩子和ME的心思,打算貼心的在最後給個驚喜,
    結果,很無奈的,也很現實的,都被孩子和ME破梗~
    我認為,
    媽媽與YOU沒有「一定要」那麼做(送禮物和請客),
    因為獲得好成績,吃到美味的食物,最終的受益者是誰,明眼人應該看得出吧~
    媽媽與YOU出於好意的貼心的舉止(送禮物和請客),
    卻被當成是為了孩子和ME開心的交換條件......
     
    沒有人有資格去要求別人(就算家人亦同)去為自己做些什麼,
    事前,請先想想自己做了什麼,自己有無那個身價去開價吧~
     
    結尾,我想,此後媽媽和YOU還會對孩子和ME貼心嗎? 哈哈~
     
     
     
     
     

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